I had a hard time leaving the UK, which feels more like home to me than France, and then Dave went back to school and I missed having him all to myself like I did during the Christmas break! And I started really missing my family and friends back in Winnipeg....so all that culminated in a few days of blues :(
Thankfully, though, it passed and looking back over the month it has been a great January!
Dave's workload when he returned to school did not gradually build up but started right where he left off.... on his first day back I came home from babysitting at 8 expecting him to be in the apartment. He was not there, so by 9 I texted him to see where he was. Turns out the students were given a group assignment their first day back and Dave and his team were at school until after 10 that first day and until midnight the second night working on it! Thankfully for Dave it was an assignment that he enjoyed - building a robot - but I was a little bummed to have to share my husband with ISU again! At the end of the week I went to ISU to see the robotics competition, where each group had to test their robot's abilities against the other groups, and it was actually really cool!
The "gold digger" robot!
So while Dave returned to school and his crazy routine, I returned to babysitting and tutoring my little French girls and Indian little boys! I was happy to get back to my usual routine after over two weeks of traveling and being lazy, so it was good to see them again and do something productive with my days. I can't say enough how thankful I am that I have these things to keep me busy and give structure to my week, not to mention provide some much needed income! I am the type of person who needs to wake up in the morning and know I have somewhere to go that day....without it I end up lounging around in my pajamas all day and not leaving the house! And even if most days I do not start until the late afternoon, at least that motivates me to get up early enough to get some other chores and errands done before going to work (although I must admit the first few weeks back I was sleeping in really late each day and had no motivation to get up early!).
Aside from our usual routines, this month has been filled with lots of birthday celebrations and cooking with friends! Unfortunately I did not document every birthday and every dinner with friends with photos, which I do regret now. But I will share what I do have...
Dave came home from grocery shopping one day with two little chickens to roast....so I left him to prepare and cook the chickens and I made the easier side dishes. It was an arrangement that worked out really well as Dave is gifted in the kitchen with meat and I prefer just to eat it! So we had a lovely dinner of chickens, mashed potatoes and gravy and corn! And as you can see from the last chicken picture, we had no trouble finishing our meal!
About a week later, Michele, a friend who goes to ISU came over to watch Grey's Anatomy with me (she and another student at ISU are fellow fans, so we try and watch it together!) and we decided to make lunch together rather than going out to eat. It was a great idea as our meal turned out fantastic!!! Michele had found Thai red curry paste on one of her grocery shopping trips so she brought it over, along with coconut milk, egg plant, zucchini and noodles - we added some other veggies and created a very yummy, but very spicy, red curry dish! It was sooo good - I wish I had taken a picture of its beauty but I did not :( Good job to Michele and Heather!
After eating our lunch and watching Grey's we decided to make a cake for our friend Dave, whose birthday party was that night. So we got two chocolate cakes from the grocery store downstairs, cherry jam, and whip cream and made him a black forest cake! It was another success! The picture is below, when I write about Dave's birthday....
One day another friend from ISU, Julia, and I were talking about cooking and we decided to get together one night to cook. We realized that we both liked cooking ethnic food, so we decided to join forces to make a tasty dish. So we chose a Friday night to get together and invited some people over to eat! Julia cannot eat gluten and she and one of our guests are vegan...so that needed to be taken into consideration when deciding what we should cook. I had a lot of fun looking up recipes online that would be good for everyone to eat at our dinner (for those that know me well, you know how much I love reading recipes and looking at recipe books!). In the end we chose a Moroccan stew that was both gluten free and vegan - and wow! I will definitely be making it again for myself, and I am not allergic to gluten, nor am I a vegan, but it was just so good! It had the coolest mixture of ingredients in it - apricots, honey, toasted almonds, ginger, spinach leaves, cumin, turmeric, cinnamon, cilantro, fresh lemon, etc...I actually laid some of them out before starting to cook because the ingredients themselves looked so beautiful:
And the finished product was both beautiful and tasty - we all really enjoyed our dinner of stew, bread, and salad (thanks to Mark for bringing the wonderful greens!). Thankfully we made a really big batch of stew, so I had left overs the next day!
Our latest cooking adventure happened last weekend with our friend Sunny - who brought back some Indian food and spices from Canada when he was home for Christmas. He brought us these butter chicken spice mixes so one night we had him over to our house and we decided to make Indian food!
Thankfully Sunny was there to coach us on the best way to bring together the right flavours for the dishes we were making - butter chicken and dahl. In the end our butter chicken turned into chicken curry as I forgot to buy the cream to add to the sauce as it was simmering (oops!) but the result was still amazing! Our spicy chicken curry - over rice, with a side of dahl - accompanied by naan and butter chicken (purchased by Sunny from the Indian restaurant below our apartment where he is always welcomed with open arms) was so good! It was a fantastic meal and we had such a great evening visiting with Sunny!
I have always loved going out for dinner with people...I love trying new restaurants and also returning again and again to my favorite places to have the same dishes that I always have. But this year Dave and I have stopped eating out as much as we used to. Mostly, it is a matter of not being able to justify spending that much money on food - when you do not really have an income and are paying tuition, high rent, etc it is just not economical for us to eat out very often! And also, for me, I have really started to enjoy having people over and cooking with them or for them. I love having people over to our apartment, it makes our apartment feel much more like home when friends are coming in and out. And it is nice to be able to spend an evening relaxing in our home and eating home cooked food together while talking and sharing a bottle of wine! And with me having more free time than I ever have had, it has also been a good opportunity to try cooking new things, particularly ethnic dishes that I have loved so much but only ever eaten while at a restaurant because I was so hesitant to make it on my own. So I wanted to blog about these dinners because yes, they have been a good part of our last month, but also because they have become a really fun and important part of my life in France.
The month of January has also been full of birthdays and birthday celebrations. First of all, it was my mom's birthday on January 20th - so Happy Birthday to my mom!!!! I was sorry to not be close by to celebrate with her - but mom, I was thinking of you all day!
The first ISU birthday that we celebrated was Diana's! She chose to start out the evening at the Bunny Bar, Strasbourg's very own karaoke bar! Unfortunately that night Dave was not feeling so great, so he stayed home and had a coma-like sleep, and I went out to celebrate. It was such a great night and the karaoke bar was so fun!
The Birthday Girl!
Backstreet Boys!
And not only was there singing - there was dancing too! One regular patron of the bar seemed to have a preference for Micheal Jackson songs and dance moves - he particularly liked to dance and be the center of attention. However, Nihar, one of our ISU group was a much more talented dancer and when Billie Jean came on, there is only one word to describe what happened: dance off! The funniest thing was that Nihar and the other guy were wearing similar outfits: jeans with blue and white plaid shirts!
PS: Nihar, you totally won the dance off
The next birthday celebration was Dave Mac's. This is the other Canadian Dave, who is also an engineer, and is also from Ontario. This is who the cake Michele and I made was for..... the funny thing was that a couple of hours before we were going to go to Dave's house for his birthday Michele and I were trying to whip the whip cream for the cake....and Dave dropped by our apartment. But the cake was supposed to be a surprise - so we ran into our bedroom with the bowl of cream and the whisker and tried to do it discreetly in the bedroom but we kept laughing and it was not so discreet! So when we brought the cake over a couple of hours later I do not think he was that surprised!
After dinner and cake everyone went to Molly Malone's Irish pub for drinks - it was a really cute pub with a really great atmosphere and nicely crowded so it felt "cozy" - at least that is how I would describe it. Like usual the night did not end there, but continued for a few more hours after I went home! I tend to go to the beginning of parties, stay for a couple of hours and then head home around midnight - while the party continues for a few more hours! This is what happened for the next party we had - Mark's birthday from ISU. We met up at ISU for a couple of hours and then Mark wanted to dance for his birthday, so the group headed out to a club in the city...I was so looking forward to going dancing that night too, but unfortunately I was beginning to get sick, so I went home early, like usual, while everyone else went to the club.
One Saturday night Dave and I were also invited to a birthday party for Violetta, a friend from church. Dave was in the midst of working on an assignment so he spent his Saturday at ISU and I went to the party solo. Violetta's house was too far for me to walk to , so I took a bus to her place and ended up in a part of Strasbourg I had never been to before. It was a really fun night to celebrate with Violetta, visit with friends from church and to meet new people that Violetta works with at the Court. And there was also a lot of food!Unfortunately, after the party when I went to catch my bus home at midnight I found out that the particular bus line serving that part of the city stopped operating at 11pm. Thankfully, other friends, Aaron and Lei, drove me home before they drove back to their home in Germany!
The last birthday party I went to (yesterday) was unlike the others I have written about. It was for Augustine, the little girl I babysit. She invited me to celebrate her 8th birthday with her and her friends at the bowling alley! So there I was, a 27 year old English speaker and 7 little French speaking girls - bowling with the "bumpers" up - and I still did not win! It was so cute and so fun - and I was really touched that Augustine wanted me to be there. So we bowled and then had candy and ice cream and sang Happy Birthday and opened presents (I got Augustine a diary with a lock and an invisible ink pen - thanks to Zahira for helping me pick it out!). I very much enjoyed being a participant at a little girl's birthday again!
January in Strasbourg has also had some remarkably warm days! There were about 2 weeks in the beginning of the month that the temperatures were in the positives and the sun was shining most days. It was glorious! I got out my bike again and started cycling around the city. I started running again, only needing to wear a single layer of clothes! And as much as possible, I tried to be outside during the daylight hours - this was a very different winter experience than what I am used to!
It has turned a bit cooler again, today it was about -2, but all things considered, I cannot complain! I know at home it has been in the -30s....so I will gladly take this Strasbourg "winter". I am thinking I will be able to continue to use my bike from now on....even when it snows it has not stayed for too long, and in the last month the streets have been clear of ice, so biking is not dangerous like it seemed to be in November and December. So I am enjoying the weather and looking forward to an even warmer spring!
The last week I have been sick with a few different things - I think I had a flu at the beginning, then I had pink eye, and now I have a cold.....so it has been a little rough on my end - health wise, but Dave has escaped getting sick so far, so I am very glad. I can afford to lay in bed all day in my pj's...he cannot!
Dave and have a few fun things coming up in the next couple of months....I have two weeks off from babysitting and tutoring at the end of February when the kids have school holidays, so I am planning a trip to Morocco with Maite, a friend here who is a teacher and obviously has the same holidays. So if all goes according to plan we will be in Morocco for a week!
In the beginning of March our friend, Stephen, from Winnipeg is coming to visit and will be here for about 6 days. I am very much looking forward to having a guest to show around Strasbourg and its surrounding areas!
And then in mid March Dave has a week break and is going to Russia with a professor and some classmates to visit significant historical landmarks and sites of the Russian space industry. So we are each taking a trip soon, although not together :( His week off does not fall on my two weeks off, so we will each take advantage of our free time but it will be sad to be apart. It is a great opportunity for Dave to travel to Russian with his Russian professor and I am so looking forward to seeing Morocco with Maite!
Dave will be doing his internship in Germany with the European Space Agency. He will begin around mid-May and continue there until August. When Dave leaves for Germany I am planning on returning home to Winnipeg and hopefully securing an articling position somewhere in Canada where Dave can work too. We both have no idea what will happen in the next months, or even where we will end up living. Now that my time here is winding down the reality of our unknown future has hit me pretty hard. I had so hoped that before moving to France I would have gotten an articling job and would have a place to work at lined up when I came back to Canada. That would have made things a lot easier.....
However, I am learning (the hard way) that when life is not easy, your faith has the opportunity to grow...if you let it. To me, finding a place to live in a city where we can both work seems so unlikely, given our situation. Finding somewhere where we can both work at a place we enjoy seems impossible. Dave and I have spent countless hours talking and thinking about where we could go that could possibly work out, and we have not come up with any real answers or possible solutions. So now, in my state of seeing no answers and no solutions on my own - I turn to the God I believe in and love and acknowledge that I cannot do anything in my own strength, and ask him to bring things together and work things out.... because only he can take what I see as impossible and make it real and living and vibrant. What he brings may not be the future I would have planned on my own or the way I envisaged it, but I have to remember that I never planned on meeting a man like Dave and getting married, and moving to France for a year and not working in law after graduation. And you know what? What he planned for me was better than what I had planned for myself. So I look ahead with a lot of questions, a bit of trembling, but hopefully an openness in my faith that allows me to be blessed with the full richness of life. I know there will be many moments in the coming months where my faith is stretched and strained with doubts, worries, setbacks and feelings of hopelessness - but it is in those moments of life I know I am truly weak and need to look to the one who is Strong.
Thank you to everyone who reads the blog, who emails, who drops a line on Facebook, etc. Dave and I are so fortunate to have so many great people in our lives! For those in Winnipeg - I am so looking forward to seeing you in a few more months! To those who have become friends here in France - I am dreading saying goodbye to you, but hope it will not be a goodbye forever!
Love Heather